Relationship Quotes for Your Enjoyment

Do you know how to keep a woman happy?  Here is some advice on relationships for men.The first advice on relationships item I have for you is to always be yourself.  Many men don’t feel that they are good enough to catch a beautiful, sexy woman, so they put on a show.  But a confident man is the sexiest beast around.  Have you ever noticed that some of the ugliest guys have some of the prettiest women?  That is because they display a level of confidence that is
more attractive to women than physical looks.

Next, you should do the little things.  This means offering to take her car in for an oil change or giving her a bag of Jelly Bellies (her favorite flavors) from time to time.  Sometimes men think in terms of “grand gestures,” when it is the little things add up to long relationships.

This ties into the next piece of advice on relationships: appreciate her.  You shouldn't take her for granted.  Let her know that you value her.Next up is not obviously looking at other women when you are with her.  Women think that you are comparing her to the woman you’re looking at.  They don’t understand the whole concept of “the day I stop looking is the day I die.”  This comes from the biological drive for monogamy in women.  Women are looking for a lifetime partner for a man with whom they can raise children.
They can’t help it.  That’s how evolution designed them.  So minimize the ogling, especially when she’s around.You should try to make her laugh.  While men list good looks at the top of the things they need in a woman, women list a man’s sense of humor.  So, if you want the relationship to last, keep her laughing.

The next bit of advice on relationships comes in seeking common interests.  It’s great if you got together because of a hobby or an interest, but it still helps when you take an interest in a long standing passion of hers.  If this means developing an appreciation for foreign films, so be it.  This shows that you care about her and she’ll know you are one in a million.

Once you get the girl, it may seem like you don’t have to try anymore – at least as far as grooming goes.  And, while women are less sensitive to looks than men are, they still like a man who makes an attempt.  So, shave on weekends. Keep in touch with the latest fashion trends for men.  In short, don’t get sloppy just because you've landed her.  You can unland her just as easily.

She’s going to need to know that she can integrate you into her circle of family and friends.  A man must be part of her larger life, especially after the first few weeks of passion are over.

So, make an effort to get along with her girlfriends and impress her parents.  A woman relies on her social network to validate her relationship choices.  Make an effort.You should always be considerate of her feelings.  Women are less stable than guys.  Part of this is hormonal.  When you are sensitive to her mood, you won’t get on her bad side.

The final piece of advice on relationships is to be open to trying new things. At the beginning of a relationship, everything is new from the types of dates you arrange to the way you kiss.  But, after a while, these things become routine.  If you find that your relationship has fallen into a rut, shake things up.  Try something new.  It will go a long way to keeping your
relationship healthy.

So, there are ten bits of advice on relationships to keep your dating life strong. Look you guys, these things are common sense and the fact is I almost drove my sweetheart out of my life because I didn't pay attention to what I was doing. There is a book that woke me up written by T ‘Dub’

Jackson called “The Magic Of Making Up”. After I read it and began applying his common sense suggestions, our love life turned around. Not only that all of my personal relationships, with friends, co-workers and my family have become much smother than they were before.You might want to check out “text your ex back advice” by yourself.

Getting Your Ex Back....Even If The Situation Seems Completely IMPOSSIBLE"

I'll show you almost forbidden persuasive techniques which are guaranteed to get your ex lover back in your arms- Even if you are the only one trying.....I swear to god....this will....without a doubt.....be the most important message you'll ever read!

Now! Pay close attention here and read each and every word of this article

I'd like to tell you a story...

A story you might strangely relate to...Don’t be surprised.

Once upon a time there was a guy...A guy named Ryan. He fell madly in love with this particular girl....A girl he considered to be just perfect.....The one he could spend the rest of his life with....And fortunately enough the girl felt the same way towards him as well.

Things seemed to be going great between the two for the first few months just like any other normal relationship but then something just didn't seem right.....Oddly enough Ryan knew something was wrong yet didn't know what.

His girlfriend stopped spending time with him, started giving dry responses to questions and stopped being physically intimate with him. And then the unthinkable happened.

One day on the phone she goes:

Ryan! We need to talk...

Ryan was alarmed...His heart rate tripled...He could sense what was coming but didn't want to face it.

Then she goes- Things just aren't the same anymore...I guess we need to give each other some space.

She spoke in a soft tone but these words hit Ryan like an Atom Bomb.

He didn't know how to take it...Or more so what to make of it.

He didn't really understand what she meant by giving each other some space...And before he could ask her more questions she made an excuse about being very busy...said I have to rush and hung up!

Ryan desperately tried to contact her after that but his calls were never answered.

Poor Ryan did not have the love of his life anymore...Now he had a bag of heavy emotions to deal with and not the least of all a hurt self-esteem.

And this is where the famous THE END comes in!

Nice story huh?

Do you find this story familiar?

Probably something that happened with you recently?

Don't know about you but I sure do find this story familiar...You know why? Because I am the poor Ryan.

Yes, sadly enough this is my story.

But here is the good news....

I got her back!

And that's the reason why I strongly urge you to keep reading this letter to it's very last word as this might very well be the magic solution you have been desperately searching for all this time and probably the most valuable information you’ll ever read!

Trust me! I know what you are going through right now...How do I know? I've been there.

I know how hard it gets to get out of bed in the morning with a dark cloud of emotions hitting you from all ends...Trying to avoid everything which reminds you of your ex yet nothing seems to work.

And the most deadliest are the "WHAT IF'S" -

What if I never get to see her again?.....What if she has already moved on? What if she is dating someone else?

And the most heart wrecking of them all...

Is she sleeping with someone else?

And before you know it, you find yourself stuck in a deadly zone of desperation looking for ways to deal with the pain.



Are you going through an emotional roller coaster?

I have some good news for you...

Do you know that you can get your ex back even if the situation seems completely hopeless? May it be simple loss of interest, A no reason breakup or even situations as bad as "CHEATING"...Yes! You can still get your ex back even after you have gone through all this.

Here is the Reality-

Now let me give you a reality check...Have you ever seen couples get together after a breakup?

I am damn sure you must have!

Now let me ask you this...Have you ever seen couples reuniting even when one of the partners cheated and even worse...”GOT ABUSED".

Okay...Now you might be thinking I must be a freaking psycho or something!

Well...Not exactly! Hear me out here...

How can people let their ex back into their life...Even when there was abuse involved?

The fact is....

People patch up even when there is cheating or abuse involved in the relationship...Now I am not saying that's right or trying to justify abuse...All I am really saying is that no situation is impossible.

There is hope in all cases.



A concept you must understand-

You might be a guy or a girl...I don't really care. Your situation might be bad, worse or utterly scary...Trust me! It doesn't matter.

All I know is simply this- If thousands of people out there reunited with their ex even when the situation seemed hopeless what makes you think that you can't?

But the issue is that these people got together by pure luck or accident. They didn't really know how they did it.

Now picture this-

What if you could be shown a secret formula...A magical trick that would make your ex crawl back to you?

Look...What I am about to share is real world, field-tested mantra which can't fail. This kind of real world secrets would not fall into your lap every day.

Grab hold of this opportunity before it's too late.



I have a Fail Proof formula-

What you are about to read now is a little strange, so prepare yourself…

No matter how ugly your situation might be you can still get your ex back...Now I can almost see you sitting there saying- That's impossible...

Well I don't blame you...

When I was dealing with the breakup I had the same mindset....I could not see any possible way to get her back.....It was a hard pill to swallow but I thought it was the end of the road for me.

It actually made me uncomfortable...In fact I was driven absolutely crazy by the very fact that I might never see her again.

I couldn't connect the idea of me having to face rejection like this...And worse without even knowing what really went wrong.

I understood that I could fill oceans with my tears but this situation wouldn’t resolve by itself...I had to take some ACTION...And that too fast.


How I Discovered The “Magic Formula”

As a kid I was always told that the best way to get somewhere in life is to follow people who have already been there.

So in short...Success leaves clues.

So I went around like a crazy maniac...Trying to figure out how to get her back.

I understood that the only way I will ever come to know how to solve this puzzle would be to get in touch with people who have already solved it. So I began my desperate search for people who reunited after a breakup...And to my pleasant surprise, there are thousands of such people out there.

I spoke to hundreds of people, Spent enormous amount of time with them to really get inside their minds to find out how they did it.

There wasn't a question I didn't ask...

There were times when people got so damn annoyed that they walked out on me...

I don't really blame them for not wanting to answer my questions....

The more people I spoke to...The more I noticed that they all followed the same formula...And that's the time when I had the real "aha" moment...The real "Light bulb" moment I had been desperately waiting for.

I felt disgustingly stupid over the fact that I had NOT SEEN what was going on… it was RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. It REALLY blew my mind…

I had finally discovered the key to the lock....

It felt like I had discovered a secret no one ever saw...

And boy did it work...Trust me! This information is not Important....It's absolutely critical, Must-have, fastest and surest way for anyone who wants to get his/her ex back....Stop a breakup or divorce.

Are you skeptical?

Well If I was in your shoes...I would be too. Don't worry...I’ll show you guaranteed proof. Just keep reading.

Are you suffering from any of the following?

A sudden Loss of appetite?

Feeling extremely tired throughout the day?

Checking your email constantly to see if your exleft a message?

Having trouble focusing on your day-to-day work?

Going through an emotional roller coaster?

Checking their myspace/facebook or any other profiles to see how many friends they have?

Feeling extremely depressed?

Constantly thinking who they are dating at this point?

And the pain only goes up with each day...Which eventually leads you into further depression.



Are you making any of these deadly mistakes?

Do you constantly fear that maybe it's over forever and you might never get your ex back?

Do you act extremely nice and keep telling your ex how much you love them over and over again?

Try to argue over the fact that it wasn't really your fault?

Trying to convince them that you have changed this time?

Trying to constantly apologize for everything?

Calling them over and over again?

Trying to stalk or spy on them?

Trying to get in touch with his/her friends or relatives?

And the worst of it all...Trying to beg them to come back to you.

If you have done any or all of the above then you have done a real good job in pushing your ex further away already.

I don't mean to be rude here.

But if you have done any of the above then you have already pushed them further away.

Now let me tell you another thing...This is not your fault.

Really! Don't hit yourself hard thinking and re-thinking all the mistakes you have made till now...It’s really not your fault.

We don't come to this world with an instruction manual as to how to manage this stuff...We aren't taught relationships in school or college. This is primarily the major reason why so many people struggle in this area of life.

But it will all change for you TODAY! Means you'll never get blown out again in this area. EVER!



WARNING: These secrets are not for everyone!

Before you go any further...Let me strongly warn you. These methods are not for everyone.

So what's the point I am trying to make here?

To be honest with you...I had my jaw dropped to the floor when I realized the power of my methods. I shared it with one of my friends and he had his ex calling him like crazy within 9 days begging him to get back together.

But hey- Don't fight me on this one...But I am more worried than relieved at the power of these methods.

These methods can be misused very easily when put into the wrong hands. Ok! Now let me set something straight here. These methods are strictly not for- Criminals, Stalkers or people dealing with mental issues.

I am only sharing these secrets for people who really need it...Not those who want to misuse it. Okay!



This stuff works amazingly well!

I know there is a lot of hyped up B.S out there...But I can say it with a big EGO that the stuff you are about to discover is not easy to find.

Many relationship experts...Psychologists...charge $100+ per hour (for months and often years) but still can't get your ex back. Unless you have a fat bank account and thousands of dollars to waste...Going to them would be plain STUPID...Period.

Now let me ask you this- Can you learn to swim without getting into the pool?

No! Right?

So how can you ever expect these so-called experts who charge you thousands of dollars who've never been in the pool to teach you how to swim?

In other words, how can you expect a person to solve your issues unless they have been through it and successfully solved it themselves?

Really! Follow me here...

Would you rather go to someone who has real world experience or to someone who has a degree to his name and pretends to know it all?

Well I would go for the guy who has real world experience any day.

But before I go into any details, Let me say this...

I know Hard the To Find “X-Factor” That will give you the ultimate power to get your ex back almost instantly....I know this might sound strange, but you will only understand the real power of my method once you see it. I must tell you that...

I have the answer you have been desperately searching for...

I have the secrets to getting the guy or girl of your dreams back into your life...Even when you are the only one trying.

Since I cannot help you face-to-face...I have done the next best thing. I have put my magic secrets into an easy to follow, step-by-step manual.

Every aspect, from how to deal with the pain to exact steps you must take which will make your ex crawl back to you faster than you can imagine have been covered. These secrets are so important that, if ignored, will shatter your chances of ever getting your lover back.

Trust me! This is one chance you can't afford to miss...These are the secrets which are not taught in any class, discussed in any book or shared anywhere else. It's an absolute must know for you...Period.

So are you ready?

Here's some solid proof that my stuff works...Pay close attention Here...

I Guarantee That This Trick Will Change Everything You Have Heard, Seen Or Tried & Will Make Your Ex Chase You Around Like Crazy...

There is a famous saying which goes don't tell the world what you can do rather show them what you can do....Therefore what can be a better way of showing you what I am talking about works extremely well than showing you some free samples and testimonials from men and women that have already used these tricks successfully.

I am going to show you a rock solid technique you can use right away and get instant results...This technique is so effective that your ex will start missing you and will desperately desire you again right away!

Ready to get started?

Okay so let's get started...Do you know that humans normally have a tendency to take things for granted?

We don't really value the air we breathe but we only understand how important it is when we run out of it. So you see similarly your ex doesn't really value you at the moment because by chasing them around you have already shown them that you need them.

But you see the pain of loss is far greater than the pleasure of gain...Humans would do anything to save what they already have instead of gaining something new. I don't why it is this way but this is the way human psychology functions.

Therefore, what you are going to do now is create a sense of loss in your ex's mind where he/she would feel constant emptiness & a sense of anxiety...Pretty much like what you are going through right now.

Okay here is what I want you to do...I want you to get in touch with your ex via SMS or E-MAIL...Why SMS or E-MAIL? Well for the simple reason that your ex will always attend to your SMS or E-MAIL even when they have been trying to avoid you.

This is the message you must write in the text-

"Want to tell you that you were right about the breakup...I guess we do need space. Amazingly something wonderful happened recently...I guess when things happen they happen for a reason...You know what?"

Now this might sound incomplete with the final "You know what?" line.

But that is the big trick here...Leaving it incomplete will raise your ex's level of curiosity and he/she will get highly eager to know the rest of the message. Don't be too surprised if your ex calls you right away...

But this is where you need to be very careful...You should not return or attend their call right away...It is very important that you must follow through with my advice in my manual "Pull your ex back".

Now let me tell you why this would work...By sending this message, you are doing everything that would persuade them to desire you once again. You are indirectly telling them-

"You don't need them anymore" - This would seriously bother them as you have just told them that they don't have you anymore. Which would create massive feeling of loss within them...This will make them want you more than ever before.

"You are telling them that you have already moved on" - They would think how could you be over it so fast all of a sudden?

"You are telling them that the breakup didn't bother you that much" - The fact that it didn't bother you that much will bother them...They would find it hard to swallow the fact that you got over them so fast.

"By telling them that something wonderful recently happened in your life they would fear that maybe you already found someone else" - This will trigger their fear of loss to unbearable levels....And at the same time the fear that you have found someone else will emotionally push them to know more and more.



The Next Very Important Step...Read Carefully.

Not only can I finally say...but more importantly - PROVE That my stuff works like magic...

Now you will see magic unfold right in front of your eyes...I want you to listen very closely here...The guy/girl who was trying to avoid you all this time will literally be begging to have your attention after this point on...

After you have sent the above mentioned message...Your ex will probably call you or send you a message to know the rest...

In this case tell them that you have something important to say and would like to get on the phone...To which your ex cannot really refuse since he/she is already jumping up and down with curiosity to know the rest of the message.

Once you are on the phone with them...Make small conversation and then tell them that you have something really important you would like them to know...And then hesitate!

"Say...Ummm! Well! I don't know how to say this...But...I guess I shouldn't tell you...But...And then go quite"

At this your ex would probably force you...But hesitate a bit more & then say...Sorry...I don't think I should tell you...I gotta go! And then hang up! That’s it...no more and no less!

Don't drag it...Keep it short and hang up.

Now do you know what you have done? Well...surprise surprise!

Before your ex was just curious but now he/she would be burning with a compelling desire to know what you really wanted to tell them.

They would find it hard to relax and get over the fact that you had something to say but never said it...And why would this work? Well humans have a tendency to desire what they can't have...And that desire turns into a burning obsession with time.

There is another great saying which goes..."Keep them hungry and they will keep coming back".

Therefore now you have made your ex extremely hungry and he/she will keep coming back for more until you satisfy their hunger.

I am sure you are real excited by now...

The Four Stages of the Text Your Ex Back System

First Stage: Across the Bow

This stage represents the introductory phase where you begin to send messages to encourage communication with your Ex again. In this stage you never mention the topic of reconciliation since the goal of this phase is to simply open new lines of communication.

Second Stage: Best of Relationship

In the second stage of the Text Your Ex Back system, the new goal is to take advantage of the newlines of open communication to create positive remembrance.  You want to casually remind your Ex of positive experiences you shared in order to place your prior relationship in a positive light.

These memories can vary from a special secret you share, a trip you took together or something as simple as a favorite movie or television show.The purpose of this phase is so you can
remind your Ex of all the good times you shared together.

This can help to rekindle feelings that may have faded but are being resurfaced. This is important as you attempt to build a new relationship based on positive emotional feelings.

Third Stage: Intimacy Booster & Green Eyed Monster

The goal of this stage is to build on the positive memories introduced in the second stage and utilize a variety of new text messages. These messages will be designed to build positive feelings and eliminate negative thoughts that may have been lingering. The goal is to have your

Ex begin to consider the idea of reconciliation while you have still not mentioned the possibility yourself.

Fourth Stage: Emotional Honesty

The accomplishment of the first three stages has helped to place you in a positive light and inspired your Ex to consider the idea of reconciliation. The final stage will open the door for you to express the feelings you have for your Ex and have them warmly received. Here you can share how you still care for your Ex and suggest the possibility of reconciliation if your Ex has not already brought the topic up themselves. You will not only express how much you care but also express your desire for commitment as you start your second but new relationship.

Note:

One element every individual should remember when utilizing the Text Your Ex Back system is the steps of the program need to be followed and it is never beneficial to try and rush the results.Skipping any step intentionally will only harm your chances of successfully reaching your Ex and creating a new and stronger relationship. Following each stage as designed will help to increase the likelihood of success from your testing efforts.

Make the Smart Investment

When you find yourself longing for an Ex or regretting a break up, the Text Your Ex Back system can help you take the necessary steps to rekindling feelings and building a new relationship. The Text Your Ex Back system comes with a 60 day guarantee where you can get your money back if you don’t find success.

Smart Strategies to Text Your Ex Back

Breakups are very hard to handle, especially in cases wherein one feels genuinely attached to the other person. Getting a relationship back on track is any day far more difficult than starting a new one afresh. Reopening the communication lines with one’s ex is never a straightforward affair. It can get highly frustrating when one Breakups are very hard to handle, especially in cases wherein one  feels genuinely attached to the other person. Getting a relationship back on track is any day far more difficult than starting a new one afresh. Reopening the communication lines with one’s ex is never a straightforward affair. It can get highly frustrating when one cannot elicit a response to one’s text messages and/or calls.

It could be that your text messages are loaded with desperation or perhaps you have been saying all the wrong words to put your partner off and push him/her away even further. While trying to text your ex back, it is important that you first become aware of the right points to focus on. Following are a few tips to help you successfully text your ex back.keep your text messages neutral,Whenever you feel like sending a text message to your ex, it is important that you stop, think and decide about the things you are going to write.

Many times your ex may simply disregard your messages just because they are either full of anger or full of mush. Always use neutral and wise words to start your text messages. Keep in mind that it is the first message which will make or break the attempt to initiate a conversation to get back with your ex. Never get too emotional, especially when sending the first text message after the breakup. Neutral text messages like, “how are you right now?” Or “how did you day go?” have a far better chance of getting a reply in comparison to messages like, “I desperately need you back” or “I enjoy you.”

Tip number 2 to text your ex back– fascinate him/her with your conversation. Once your ex has replied to one of your initial messages, it is important that you continue the conversation by using neutral and fascinating topics. Steer clear from intimate topics which might end up making him/her feel uncomfortable and completely quit responding to your text messages. The essential point in any such conversation is trying to comprehend what other person is saying and replying in accord to that. Give him/her enough time before jumping into topics related to relationship as it may be too premature to talk about them.

Tip number 3 to text your ex back– never bombard your ex with continuous text messages.In case your ex is unable to reply quickly to your text message, avoid shooting continuous text messages to him or her. Give him/her ample time to think about his/her reply. This is all the more important if it is a very fragile topic that you are discussing. Give him/her a breather prior to shooting one text message after the other. Also stay away from begging for a response as you may end up sounding desperate. Hold onto your horses and practice patience; there are good chances that you might get the reply you want and things may start moving in the right direction.

Learn several tricks like these from expert Michael Fiore in his e-book Text Your Ex Back.Most Commonly Made Mistakes While Trying to Text Your Ex Back – And How to Avoid Them.Breaking up with one’s partner is never an easy thing and is normally attributed to some mistakes that were committed by both individuals during the relationship. It could be that one of you cheated or perhaps there was a huge communication gap. The end result was putting an end to it all and going different

Tips To A Successful First Text ex

It can be extremely hard to figure out what to say when you want to text your ex back after a breakup. Most people will be eager to text their ex back right away only to find that they are too nervous to actually go through with it.

There are many doubts that will run through our heads as we think about texting our ex back.

Thoughts such as:

“will I scare my ex away if I text them now?”

“What should I say to my ex?”

“Is saying hello enough?”

There are literally thousands of different thoughts that will go through your head when you consider what you should say when you plan to text your ex back. All these thoughts going through your head as you are thinking about texting your ex back may end up having a paralyzing effect on you.

For those of you who have went though this before in your life we will be going over some ideas to help assist you in making your first text after breaking up.

Your first text will be very important. If you send a successful first text it can bring new life to your relationship with your ex. If you do your first text after breaking up incorrectly then you run the risk of closing off communications permanently. If there is no more communication then there can be no chance of repairing a broken relationship.

The first idea you should follow is to avoid sending a text message to your ex too soon. You should plan to observe a time of no contact with your ex. While you are waiting to contact your ex boyfriend or girlfriend you should be thinking about what you may have done wrong in your relationship to cause the breakup. It is also a good idea to ask yourself whether you really want your ex back or not. You may be thinking that of course you want your ex back but it is important to not let your emotions make the decision for you.

It is important to avoid begging and apologizing when dealing with your ex. Another thing that you should avoid saying is that you are a new person or that you have changed. The reason for this is you are going to want to convince your ex that you want to start a new relationship with them. The idea of starting a fresh relationship is very important. If your ex thinks that the relationship will be the same as before with all of the problems of the past to go with it he or she will be less likely to give you another shot.

Making certain that your text messages are effective is very important to have overall success in winning your ex back. In most cases you will only get one chance to get your ex back through texting. If you send the wrong text then you may not get another chance to win them back.

Do you want to know how to get your ex boyfriend back?

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This book is a unique insight to male psychology when it comes to relationships.

It gives you the tactics, techniques, and strategies that will give you the maximum odds to help you understand how to get your ex boyfriend back.

This course will help you as it is based on innate and uncontrollable instincts in your ex boyfriend, ex husband or any ex. That’s what makes this the most foolproof guide you’ll ever find in this world.

Rest assured that this is not a bunch of plagiarized crap thrown together by someone with no experience. Instead you’re going to learn exactly what works from someone who spent many years studying dating and
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This is a practical, get-to-the-point kind of guide. Most importantly, it focuses on results.

You’ll discover what makes a successful relationship and how to keep your man attracted to you. That way, you’ll make sure that once he does come back…he’ll stay with you forever.

How to Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back: The real reasons cutting off contact accomplishes three things:

It demonstrates that right now you’re unfazed by the break-up. This will arouse your ex’s curiosity about how you could change your mind so drastically. As you’ll soon find out, this emotion of curiosity will be a powerful tool for you to learn the process on how to get your ex boyfriend back now.

It gives you time to put your life back together, learn from your mistakes, and work on what the author calls the “New You Keys.” (You’ll learn how to do all of this in a little while.)

It makes him receptive to reopening communication with you – but this time on your terms, not his.

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Signs Your Ex Wants You Back

Getting dumped by your boyfriend or girlfriend can be a traumatic experience especially if you are still committed to the relationship. Many people who find themselves on the wrong end of a breakup hold out hope that the union can be reconciled. If you have found yourself in this position, it is likely that you are constantly looking for signs your ex wants you back. These signs can be difficult to recognize, and it is hard to be objective when you are emotionally invested in a favorable outcome.

The first thing you must learn to do is differentiate between a genuine signs your ex wants you back and mere acts of kindness. Your former lover may genuinely care for you and act accordingly, but this does not mean he or she wants to get back together. Below are a few surefire signs that there is still some lingering love interest between the two of you.

man and woman looking into each others eyes-Reminiscing

Does your ex regularly bring up the good times you had together? If so, this almost certainly means that there is still a spark left. If the memories the two of you share still elicit strong emotions, and are still on his or her mind, there is a good chance that reconciliation is possible. In the absence of direct evidence, bring up some of your fondest memories and gauge the reaction you get from your ex. Do you see genuine emotion or a flat affect? The answer to this question is quite telling, and can be one of the clearest signs your ex wants you back.

Keeping Tabs

Another key thing to look for is interest in your daily comings and goings. If your former partner has moved on emotionally, you will not see much concern for what you are up to on a daily basis. On the contrary, if he or she is always calling to find out what your plans are and who you are spending time with, there is still an emotional investment. Again, be sure to differentiate between polite interest and genuine concern. Just because someone asks what you are up to does not mean that he or she really cares about your answer.

Possessive Language

Pay attention to how your ex speaks to you. If there is still some romantic interest there, you will hear it in the language. This can be subtle, but if you are paying attention you will notice it. Collective pronouns like “we” and “us” indicate that he or she still thinks of the two of you as a partnership if they are used in a positive sense. These terms, when used affectionately, are strong signs your ex wants you back.

Intuition

Sometimes the signs your ex wants you back come from within. The feelings deep in your gut can tell you an awful lot if you are willing to listen closely. These feelings do not always tell you what you want to hear but they are usually pretty accurate. Ask yourself whether you feel like there is a real chance of reconciliation, or if you are just unwilling to let go. Explore your deepest feelings and trust your intuition.